I have written and re-written this post so many times, I have lost count. I wanted it to be perfect. I prayed that as you read it that you will be inspired to close your eyes and say a silent, heart-felt prayer for your babies.
Because, you my friend have so much power inside you and with your words you can change so so much.
I wish that I could sit with you as you read this post and you could tell me what you think of it. That we can share stories and I can explain that my only goal is to encourage, and hopefully inspire you in your motherhood and in your faith journey.
So I wrote, deleted, edited, corrected and re-read every word. And then I remembered that this post is not about me. My only part is to share my faith with you, to tell you about how awesome our Father is and how much He loves you.
The way it inspires you, I leave entirely in His hands.
So I stopped worrying about whether I’ve dotted every i and crossed every t. Instead I am going to offer this post up from my heart to yours.
Because mothering is hard. I doubt myself all the time. I sometimes lay awake worrying about my children, my husband, or my family. It just comes with the territory.
We worry not just about our children’s future but also about right now. This very moment. We worry that they are not eating enough nutritious food, that they don’t have enough friends or if they will grow up to be shunned by their peers because they haven’t showered in a week, or is this just in my house?
Worrying is what we sometimes do best.
But God’s has told us to not “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” Phillippians 4:6-7
Those are very specific instructions and I think they were written especially for mothers. Isn’t it great to know that there is a power larger than ourselves that we can entrust our children to.
I believe that being a mother is a calling and a blessing from God and that God is all His goodness will give us all we need to accomplish this vocation called motherhood. And we all want the same thing – to raise kind, loving, happy people who are a blessing to our family and to those around them.
So instead of constantly throwing our hand up in worry and defeat, instead of wringing our hands and rubbing our temples wondering if we are doing a good job or if our kids will be okay, lets try instead to entrust our children to God’s powerful, loving and extraordinary care through prayer.
In all honesty I too am learning to lean more on Christ. I do not want you to ever think that I have this mothering thing down pat. I am learning, just like you and each day God is helping me along the way.
I recognize that on my own accord I have so little power. I control nothing but my own self; even my very breath is directed by my Father. Why then should I not lean on Him with the things I love the most?
We need only ask for His Divine help and He will freely give it.
I admit, I had not been as consistent about praying for my children in the past. So this is a great reminder for me as well.
A reminder to make sure I pray more than I worry.
I wish I had stumbled upon this post when my first son was born. During his delivery, his heart rate dropped dramatically. There I was hooked up to the machine that monitored my contractions and all of a sudden this alarm-like sound came on. In flew a nurse who took one look at me and the machine and pressed the red, ‘in-case of emergency only’ button. Almost immediately, I was surrounded by a swarm of nurses and doctors as they proceeded to shake my pregnant belly vigorously. His heart rate shot back up and they left me until it happened again one more time.
When my son was finally born, we found out that his umbilical cord was wrapped twice around his neck which caused his heart rate to plummet during contractions. Thank God for protecting him during that time.
I wish I had known more about praying for your children back then. Because if I had, I really believe that my son would not be affected by the spirit of fear and anxiety that was caused my his scary birth.
You might think I’m crazy. And maybe I am. (ha!) But I do wonder how things would be if I had immediately taken my baby in my arms, blessed him in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit and spoke God’s blessing over him. Would he still be so fearful and anxious today? Would he struggle so much in school if I had spoken words of healing for the trauma he might have gone through from the very beginning? If I had replaced the spirit of fear brought on by the few seconds of his lack of oxygen and asked the Spirit to fill him instead with peace, joy and blessings?
When I was pregnant, I would pray constantly for my baby. When he was finally born, I got so caught up in the utter exhaustion of motherhood that at the time I didn’t make room for God.
Thankfully, for me and for you, God is a loving, giving God and He meets us where ever we are. So these days, I pray for my son constantly, all the time, everyday! I pray that God may heal him, protect him and help him to become the person he was created to be. I ask God to remove whatever blockage may be keeping him back and that God my deliver him.
If you are just introducing your children to God and the Bible, we love this Rhyming Bible for Kids. We read a story at night before bed or during the lull time during the day!
Recently, I witnessed the power of being a prayerful mama so fully and it once again reminded me that God is all powerful and ever present.
A few months ago, my son was having a complete meltdown before bed (meltdowns have such a way of waiting till bedtime). I cannot remember now what it was over but I know my husband and I were getting frustrated because he refused to go to bed and settle down. He needed water, he was too hot, then too cold. You know the drill. After tucking him in for the hundredth time, he came out of his room again and threw himself on the floor, kicking his feet and yelling loudly.
At this point I had tried everything – empty threats, reasoning and even bribery. Nothing worked.
All of a sudden I reached down and started saying all the things that I love about my son. I started blessing him with my words.
And can I tell you that God showed up in such a huge way right in that moment of chaos! I called and Holy Spirit came.
I found myself not necessarily praying for my son but instead the words that came out of my mouth was a prayer of thanksgiving to God for this child he has given me.
I started speaking blessing of all the characteristics and traits that he was lacking at the time and that I wanted him so much to have.
I rubbed his chest that was heaving with emotion and said “you are a child of God”.
I gently held his arms that were trying to hit me and said “Lord, thank you for sending this child into this family.”
I rubbed his feet that were trying to kick me and said “I thank God for the goodness that is within you. You are such a blessing. You are such a joy. You bring peace wherever you go. We are so lucky to have you in this family. I thank God that I am your mommy. I thank Jesus for making you so loving and kind”.
I thanked God for my son. I prayed for him, over him and about him. I covered him under the blanket of God’s love.
After a few minutes, he fell asleep on the floor (the little angel must have been over-tired also). I was surprised at how effective and quick the transformation was; although I should not have been surprised in the least. My Father is all powerful after all.
I really believe that when we mother in faith, God will help us when we call out to him. Our prayers are so powerful and can do miracles in your child’s life.
Similarly, no prayer goes without having effect. It either changes you or the person you are praying for. Sometimes I pray that my children may be more obedient but instead God gives me more patience. Sometimes I pray that God may help my children to settle down and relax but instead He gives me the energy to keep up with their playfulness.So let us all be prayer warriors for our children. We need not live in constant fear and worry. Instead, we can dedicate them to the care of our heavenly Father, who loves our children even more that we do. Click To Tweet
(I still cannot fully wrap my mind around that one but its so true.)
You can start today, this very minute, to pray for your children. No matter how young or how old they are; not matter if things are exactly how as you hoped they would be and there is nothing you are concerned about (if so, please tell me your secret), you can pray for their future that God’s blessing and favor will always be with them.
I am so grateful that I have a mom who prays for me everyday and I want to become that blessing for my children.
I want people to look at their joy, kindness and strength of spirit and wonder how they got it and for my children to smile and say “I have a mom who prays for me”. (drop the mic)
What a wonderful and FREE gift we can give our children. What a joy that we have such power to influence their future in such a positive way.
Praying for our children does not have to be complicated. Say a prayer while you’re folding laundry that God may bless whoever is wearing this shirt and that they may be covered in his protection. My boys share clothes so I have to keep these prayers more general but feel free to specifically call out the name of the child you are praying for.
Pray while making lunch, while playing legos or babies on the floor. Just a simple “Father please help my daughter to be a kind person.”
“Lord, please help my son love what is good and always try to please you.”
And pray in confidence that what you ask will be granted to you. “Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.” Mark 11:24. Go ahead and re-read that. Let it sink in and wash over you.
Therefore, I pray that God may heal my son of the spirit of fear and anxiety and help him to become the person God created him to be.
Whatever your way of praying is, I encourage you to offer up your children and their future to your Heavenly Father. Pray for them and watch as our Father guides, leads and protected them. Time time when you have a free moment, sit quietly and pour out your worries to you Father. Place everything in His loving hands.
He loves you so much and is waiting to hear from you. He s ready to shower you and your children with His blessings.
If you’re looking for ideas on what to pray, these are some of my favorites. Depending on the situation I try to incorporate these into a conversation I might be having with a particular child.
Blessing when they leave for school for the day: – “The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you, the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” Numbers 6:24-26
Prayer against the spirit of fear and anxiety: – “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9
Prayer for courage to start the day or when your child is looking for guidance: – “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 (I say this almost daily to myself)
Blessing when you are feeling fearful about your child’s future: – “The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forever.” Psalm 121:8
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